Door slamming is like an exclamation point. Isn't that true? A slammed door is an act of making sure everyone understands your frustration or anger. We've instructed the kids to not slam the doors, mainly because of all the little fingers that could be in the way. Often it is accidental, excitedly running outside to play and not paying attention. But also in our house right now, that dramatic exit belongs to my 6-year-old son. He will get upset for a myriad of reasons, but I notice it's mostly when he's misunderstood. This really irritates me, and I want to focus on the slam rather than his feelings or what he is upset with. I am realizing that it is OK to wait, let us both calm down, then approach his closed door and ask to talk. Responding, and not reacting, is such a test in patience!
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